To me, a gentleman with essence is a man of character, integrity, and purpose. It is not defined by appearance or status, but by how he treats others and carries himself every day. I live by my three P's: Preach, Protect, and Provide. I preach through leading by example and uplifting others, protect my family, community, and values, and provide through hard work, service, and mentorship. A gentleman with essence leaves every person and every place better than he found it.